Recent Posts
Archives
- July 2025
- June 2025
- May 2025
- April 2025
- March 2025
- February 2025
- January 2025
- December 2024
- November 2024
- October 2024
- September 2024
- May 2023
- April 2023
- March 2023
- February 2023
- January 2023
- December 2022
- October 2022
- September 2022
- August 2022
- July 2022
- June 2022
- May 2022
- April 2022
- March 2022
- February 2022
- October 2021
- September 2021
- August 2021
- July 2021
- June 2021
- May 2021
- April 2021
- March 2021
- February 2021
- January 2021
- December 2020
- November 2020
- October 2020
- September 2020
- August 2020
- July 2020
- June 2020
- May 2020
- April 2020
- March 2020
- February 2020
- January 2020
- December 2019
- November 2019
- October 2019
- September 2019
- August 2019
- July 2019
- June 2019
- May 2019
- April 2019
- March 2019
- February 2019
- January 2019
- November 2018
- October 2018
- September 2018
- August 2018
- July 2018
- June 2018
- May 2018
- April 2018
- March 2018
- February 2018
- January 2018
- December 2017
- November 2017
- October 2017
- September 2017
- August 2017
- July 2017
- June 2017
- May 2017
- April 2017
- March 2017
- February 2017
- January 2017
- December 2016
- November 2016
- October 2016
- September 2016
- August 2016
- July 2016
- June 2016
- May 2016
- April 2016
- March 2016
- May 2015
- April 2015
- March 2015
- February 2015
- January 2015
- May 2014
- April 2014
- March 2014
- February 2014
- July 2013
- May 2013
- March 2012
- September 2011
- November 2010
- October 2010
- September 2010
Categories
Meta
Happy 4th!
On this July 4th, I will leave you with a quote from Harry Truman. It gets me going as a citizen and salesperson. “America was not built on fear, American was built on courage, on imagination and an unbeatable determination to do the job at hand.” We live in the greatest country in the world. May God continue to Bless America!
Happy 4th!
Posted in Uncategorized
Comments Off on Happy 4th!
AI versus Authentic Human Connection
Good afternoon,
Today, I just want to encourage everyone to be their genuine self. Your authenticity will earn you and the business more money. Oscar Wilde said, “Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken.” The pressure to be somebody else is much more prevalent today with the emergence of AI. Use AI as a tool not your voice.
Here are some points from Jeb Stuart’s Podcast called, Can AI Really Replace Salespeople?
The One Thing AI Can Never Do:
This is where the magic happens, and it’s where your competitive edge lies.
AI can write emails. It can analyze data. It can even fake phone calls (poorly). But it cannot engage in real-time, empathetic, synchronous conversation with another human being.
It can’t read micro-expressions during a video call. It can’t pick up on the subtle hesitation in someone’s voice that signals an unspoken objection. It can’t pivot in real-time when the conversation takes an unexpected turn.
Most importantly, it can’t build the kind of authentic human connection that makes people want to buy from you instead of your competitor.
If you’re a salesperson:
- Learn to use AI as your research assistant and writing coach, not your replacement.
- Never let AI write emails or make calls on your behalf. People will know, and they’ll hate it.
- Double down on developing your conversation skills, empathy, and relationship-building abilities.
- Remember the Golden Rule: Never trust, always verify. AI will lie to you, so double check everything.
“The authentic self is the soul made visible.” Sarah Ban Breathnach.
Posted in Uncategorized
Comments Off on AI versus Authentic Human Connection
Secret Recipe
We just completed our AMS Fest Chicago event and shared with prospects and partners our recipe for membership success. It was arguably the most people we have ever had attend our sessions at AMS Fest.
A recipe is a story that ends with a good meal or our case successful membership management. Most of the prospects left our presentation hungry to explore more menu items with their associations. Our chefs look forward to sharing more of our secret ingredients to help our clients and prospects grow and serve their members.
The follow up on this event will be easy. Everyone will remember the chef’s outfits. Isn’t that what we all are working toward? Making are interactions with customers and prospects memorable!
Bon Appetite,
RJ
Posted in Uncategorized
Comments Off on Secret Recipe
Kindness
We are all busy trying to keep customers and bring in new ones. As part of our daily practice, we should strive to reach out with at least one act of kindness. Today, I sent a coffee card to a prospect having a call with Mark tomorrow- see the following email.
Moving forward, consider demonstrating some kindness to a prospect regarding the following:
Receiving an RFP.
After Sending an RFP response- For example, here’s a coffee to help you get through the legal stuff.
Prior to an Introduction Call.
After an Introduction Call.
Discovery Demo.
Prior to an annual event.
Major event- Birthday, Promotion, Anniversary, Having a baby etc.
Here’s a couple quotes that have made it too my desk over the past month:
“Cheerfulness is contagious, and crabbiness is even more contagious.” Monitor your appearance & attitude on the phone, email and on any virtual call.
“Kindness is the ability and desire to have a positive impact on others.” RAKTIVIST- Random Acts of Kindness Activist.
Posted in Uncategorized
Comments Off on Kindness
Confidential
Nothing attracts people’s interests like the attempt to keep something hidden. Everyone wants to open the box labeled “Confidential.”
My latest brainstorm, is to lead with the Subject Line: Confidential. The message could read- It has been hard to keep this new package confidential and here’s what it looks like inside. Then go into the details.
I will quote from the book Secrets of Adulthood- “Pouring out ideas is better for the imagination than dolling them out by teaspoon.”
Happy June!
Posted in Uncategorized
Comments Off on Confidential
Auditions
As a Business Development consultant, we are always working to keep our subject matter experts on the stage and out of the auditions. With that said, I auditioned for many speaking roles in High School theater. However, I was only given the parts of inanimate objects- Rocks, Trees etc. From this experience, I found it a lot more fulfilling to get other people on the stage.
Posted in Uncategorized
Comments Off on Auditions
Spring
Spring is God’s way of saying, “One more time!” Robert Orben.
Posted in Uncategorized
Comments Off on Spring
Avoid Ghosting
In a sales context, try this to avoid ghosting- “Your response will help me provide the right content at the right time and avoid bothering you with unnecessary information.”
Posted in Uncategorized
Comments Off on Avoid Ghosting
Networking- Score Card
Remember, it is not who you meet at the event that counts. It is who you meet after the event that puts points on the board. Bonus- People love a Happy Hour. It’s a non threatening way to meet people.
Posted in Uncategorized
Comments Off on Networking- Score Card
What is your superpower?
Sometimes I am amazed at how the small things can turn into a superpower. For example prospects will say, Thanks for setting the appointment so quickly. Your note was so kind. The coffee before the meeting was thoughtful. The sales & marketing teams really communicate clearly and quickly. That was a nice mid-day surprise. As we with disgruntled customers, providing poor service travels fast in the marketplace. The good news is we can all tap into our superpower and create bonds with customers & prospects that can last a lifetime.
Posted in Uncategorized
Comments Off on What is your superpower?