Kindness

We are all busy trying to keep customers and bring in new ones. As part of our daily practice, we should strive to reach out with at least one act of kindness. Today, I sent a coffee card to a prospect having a call with Mark tomorrow- see the following email.

Moving forward, consider demonstrating some kindness to a prospect regarding the following:
Receiving an RFP.
After Sending an RFP response- For example, here’s a coffee to help you get through the legal stuff.
Prior to an Introduction Call.
After an Introduction Call.
Discovery Demo.
Prior to an annual event.
Major event- Birthday, Promotion, Anniversary, Having a baby etc.

Here’s a couple quotes that have made it too my desk over the past month:

“Cheerfulness is contagious, and crabbiness is even more contagious.” Monitor your appearance & attitude on the phone, email and on any virtual call.

“Kindness is the ability and desire to have a positive impact on others.” RAKTIVIST- Random Acts of Kindness Activist.

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Confidential

Nothing attracts people’s interests like the attempt to keep something hidden. Everyone wants to open the box labeled “Confidential.”
My latest brainstorm, is to lead with the Subject Line: Confidential. The message could read- It has been hard to keep this new package confidential and here’s what it looks like inside. Then go into the details.
I will quote from the book Secrets of Adulthood- “Pouring out ideas is better for the imagination than dolling them out by teaspoon.”
Happy June!
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Auditions

As a Business Development consultant, we are always working to keep our subject matter experts on the stage and out of the auditions. With that said, I auditioned for many speaking roles in High School theater. However, I was only given the parts of inanimate objects- Rocks, Trees etc. From this experience, I found it a lot more fulfilling to get other people on the stage.

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Spring

Spring is God’s way of saying, “One more time!” Robert Orben.

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Avoid Ghosting

In a sales context, try this to avoid ghosting-  “Your response will help me provide the right content at the right time and avoid bothering you with unnecessary information.” 

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Networking- Score Card

Remember, it is not who you meet at the event that counts. It is who you meet after the event that puts points on the board. Bonus- People love a Happy Hour. It’s a non threatening way to meet people.

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What is your superpower?

Sometimes I am amazed at how the small things can turn into a superpower. For example prospects will say, Thanks for setting the appointment so quickly. Your note was so kind. The coffee before the meeting was thoughtful. The sales & marketing teams really communicate clearly and quickly. That was a nice mid-day surprise. As we with disgruntled customers, providing poor service travels fast in the marketplace. The good news is we can all tap into our superpower and create bonds with customers & prospects that can last a lifetime. 

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Sales- Boring to Productive

Good afternoon,
As I work through the grind of prospecting this week, I thought it would be a good idea to pass on a few points from Cynthia Handal, who talks about the Power of Boring Work in sales. Believe me, it’s not that we don’t know but need to be reminded. Here’s the podcast and full article-https://salesgravy.com/why-the-basics-still-beat-fancy/
Also, the following email from my prospect illustrates the power of follow up. I have been following up with this guy since August. Remember in God we trust and follow up with everyone else.
Here are Cynthia’s thoughts:
What Actually Wins: The Fundamentals
If you want to win more, stop searching for better tactics and start doing the boring stuff better. Because these five basics are still undefeated:
1. Phone Calls
Cold calls. Warm calls. Follow-up calls. Call blocks. Whatever the flavor, the phone remains your fastest path to building pipeline. And yet it’s the most avoided.
Most reps send five emails and give up. Not top performers. They make the call. Because conversations close deals—period.
2. Discovery Questions
Stop pitching. Start digging. The best reps are curious, not convincing. They lead with questions that uncover pain, urgency, and decision dynamics. And they clam up long enough to actually listen.
You don’t earn trust by explaining. You earn it by understanding.
3. Objection Handling
If objections scare you, it’s because you don’t practice. It’s because you haven’t made a habit of practicing.
Objections aren’t stop signs—they’re buying signals. But if you’re caught off guard every time someone says, “I need to think about it,” you’re not preparing. You’re winging it. And amateurs who wing it get smoked.
4. Follow-Up
Here’s the truth: the sale is almost never made on the first call. Or the second. Or even the fifth. 80% of sales happen after the 5th touch, but most reps quit after two. Why? Emotion.
They feel rejected. Embarrassed. “I don’t want to bother them.” Bother them? You’re solving a problem they can’t fix alone. Follow up until they buy or you find them a better solution.
5. Asking for the Sale
Most reps are afraid to ask. Why?
Because they’re afraid of hearing no. But here’s the thing: no is part of the process. If you’re not hearing no, you’re not asking enough.
You’re a consultant. You’re a closer. Your job isn’t to make the prospect feel warm and fuzzy—it’s to guide them to a decision. And that means asking with courage and confidence.
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Perspective

Today has not been a productive day. My internet provider is enhancing the network in my neighborhood, so the Internet has been up and down all day. This makes me realize how much I am tied to the Internet and the Power Grid. This problem also reminds me of a story/parable that I shared with my Character Ed students last year.
Here’s how a conversation with a teenager living in a third world country might go:
Hi, Coach Carr, why are you looking so sad? Well, my Internet was up and down all day. My productivity was way down.
I then asked the young boy, what are some of your challenges?
We don’t have clean water.
Our power keeps going off every other day.
My family can’t get access to health care.
I don’t feel safe in my own neighborhood.
I can’t go to church without being persecuted.
I can’t find reliable transportation to get to school.
My school doesn’t have enough money to support any athletic programs.
Coach Carr what did you say you were sad about again?
The only thing you sometimes have control over is perspective.
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Faith

Faith makes things possible, not necessarily easy.

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